Happy Dragon Boat Festival!

The Dragon Boat Festival takes place on the 5th day of the 5th month of the lunar calendar, which is often the end of May or the beginning of June every year.



This festival is associated with Qu Yuan (屈原) , who was a patriotic poet and a beloved minister during the Warring States period. He was falsely accused, which resulted in his exile by Emperor Huai. The next emperor surrendered the country to the rival states, and in his despair, Qu Yuan drowned himself in the Miluo River.

When the villagers heard what he did, they raced out in boats to recover his body. To keep the fishes from his body, the villagers made rice dumplings and threw them into the river. They also beat drums to frighten off the fish. This has since evolved into a yearly Chinese traditions of eating rice dumplings and dragon boat races on the 5th day of the 5th month in the lunar calendar.

Mothers are blessings in our life

“Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.” (Psalm 127:3)

Children are a blessing and reward from God. If children are blessings from God, then parenthood is also a precious gift from God.

A mother who serves her family is loved and cherished by her husband and children.

Faith is often passed down through generations. Mothers and grandmothers play crucial roles in teaching the children about God. In the Bible, we have the example of Lois and Eunice, who were the grandmother and mother Of Timothy. They taught him the scriptures and provided him with godly examples to follow.

Mary, the mother of Jesus also demonstrated humility and joy as she was chosen to be the mother of God’s Son.

“And Mary said: ‘My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed.'” (Luke 1:46-48)
She has become one of the examples for female believers around the world throughout the centuries.

Today, mothers also benefitted much from learning from the woman described in Proverbs 31. Mothers’ love and sacrifices are a blessing to her family.

“Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.'” (Proverbs 31:28-29)

Mothers provide wise and useful instructions to her children as they navigate life. Regardless of our age, our mothers provide wisdom that we can learn from and their love provide us with safety as we go through the storms in life.

“Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. They are a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck.” (Proverbs 1:8-9)

“My son, keep your father’s command and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. Bind them always on your heart; fasten them around your neck.” (Proverbs 6:20-21)

Mothers are strong. They put their confidence in God regarding their future and the future of their family. They know that God will guide and watch over them.

“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” (Proverbs 31:25)

A mother’s hard work deserves honour and appreciate in the family and community. Not just on Mother’s Day, but on a daily basis as well.

Proverbs 31:31
“Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.” (Proverbs 31:31)

I want to wish my mum a blessed Mother’s Day! I thank the Lord for my mum. She loves us so much and made alot of sacrifices for us so that we can be the women we are today!

My sister too, has been a fantastic mum to her children and I am in awe of how she raised her children. Our mum taught her well! Her children are growing up in a healthy and happy environment, for sure!

I also want to thank my aunties: Aunt Irene, Aunt May and Aunt Helen for being wonderful and Christ-like examples for me!

I am indeed blessed to have these women in my life! Amen.

Happy Valentine’s 2025!

Happy Valentine’s!

Valentine’s Day is celebrated to remember Saint Valentine, a Christian martyr who showed Christ-like love. He performed Christian marriages during persecution. He also cared for the sick and those in prison.

Whether we are celebrating with someone special or celebrating with our friends, let’s not forget God loves us! He is love.

God shows us what love is: Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
(1 Corinthians 13:4-8a, ESV)

The Examen – looking back at 2024

As the year 2024 is coming to a close, many of us are reflecting on the year.


There is an ancient prayer called the Examen. It is a reflective prayer used by the Church, allowing us to see God in the people and the events around us each day.

This reflective prayer is used by
St. Ignatius Loyola to find
God’s presence in our daily lives and to discern His plans for us.

I have adapted St Ignatius’ the Examen as I reflect on this year. May you find it helpful too.

(1) Recognise that we are in God’s presence
Take a minute to be with God in silence. Pray that God will guide you through the reflection. Be open to God’s voice.

(2) Rejoice
What are the blessings you have received this year? Give thanks to God.

(3) Review the year
What brought you joy? What challenged you? Pay attention to your emotions as you recall these events.

(4) Repent
Think of the moments where you sinned. Ask God for forgiveness and to heal those whom we have hurt.

(5) Resolve
Look to hope for tomorrow and the new year. Plan to make year 2025 better with God’s grace.

Love one another

How do others know that we are followers of Jesus Christ?


By the way we love. Jesus has set us the example of love and humility. We are to love others as He has loved us. His nature is love.

It is not easy; we can’t give what we don’t have. since God is love, it is His Spirit that flows in and through us to others. We can only love others through God’s love.

May You Be Blessed Forever, Lord

A prayer by St Teresa of Avila (1515-1582)

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for not abandoning me when I abandon you.

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for offering your hand of love in my darkest, most lonely moment.

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for putting up with such a stubborn soul as mine.

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for loving me more than I love myself.

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for continuing to pour out your blessings upon me, even though I respond so poorly.

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for drawing out the goodness in all people, even including me.

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for repaying our sin with your love.

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for being constant and unchanging, amidst all the changes of the world.

May you be blessed forever, Lord, for your countless blessings on me and on all your creatures.

Saint Teresa of Avila (1515-1582)

The prayers of St Teresa of Avila 
(1515-1582)